Darryl William Sutherland
1936 – 2026
Hartford, Connecticut
Darryl William Sutherland Sr. lived a life that quietly embodied the American experience of the twentieth and early twenty-first centuries. Born on November 30, 1936, in Hartford, Connecticut, he entered the world during the Great Depression, experiencing firsthand the resilience and adaptability that would define his character throughout his eighty-nine years.
During his childhood, Sutherland's family made the significant decision to relocate to Fort Lauderdale, Florida, joining the wave of Americans seeking opportunity and warmer climates in the developing Sunbelt. This move placed young Darryl in a community transformed by World War II, where the Naval Air Station Fort Lauderdale, commissioned in October 1942, brought military personnel and federal investment to the region. Growing up in this environment of rapid change and patriotic purpose likely shaped his understanding of duty and community service that would manifest later in his volunteer work with youth sports.
After his formative years in Florida, Sutherland embarked on a career in banking that would span three decades and take him across the American West. His professional journey led him to live in Los Angeles, Portland, and eventually the Seattle area, reflecting broader patterns of westward migration that characterized post-war America. The banking industry during Sutherland's career years experienced significant transformation, from the regulatory changes of the 1960s through the technological innovations of the 1980s and 1990s. His ability to maintain a successful thirty-year career through these changes speaks to his professional competence and adaptability.
True to his restless nature, Sutherland "never sat still for long" after his early retirement from banking. He found new purpose contributing his talents to Eddie Bauer, the iconic outdoor retailer founded in Seattle in 1920, and later to Redapt Systems, where he served as an Accounting Manager. This technology company, which began in 1996 in a Bellevue basement with just $1,000 in capital, represented the Pacific Northwest's emerging tech sector. Sutherland's transition from traditional banking to retail and then to technology demonstrated his willingness to embrace new challenges and contribute his expertise across different industries.
Family stood at the center of Sutherland's life. He was the father of six sons: Darryl Jr., Scott, Nicholas, Jeffrey, Mark, and David, who predeceased him. The loss of David represented one of life's most profound sorrows, yet Sutherland remained a devoted supporter of his surviving children and their families. His legacy extends through six grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren, creating a multigenerational family that carries forward his values of dedication, kindness, and quiet strength.
Faith provided a steady foundation throughout Sutherland's life. As "a devoted Catholic who lived his faith quietly and consistently," he found spiritual grounding that sustained him through life's joys and sorrows. His funeral service at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Bellevue reflected a lifetime of religious commitment within the parish community that had blessed the area with over 98 years of service.
Sutherland's commitment to youth development found expression through his volunteer work as a Little League umpire and youth sports coach. This service required not only knowledge of athletics but patience, fairness, and dedication to helping young people develop character through sports. His willingness to contribute time and expertise to community youth programs exemplified the values of service and mentorship that guided his life.
An intellectually curious man, Sutherland "loved reading, especially history," developing knowledge and understanding of the human experience across time. His musical tastes revealed sophisticated appreciation, ranging "from classical and marches to opera and artists like Paul Simon and Billy Joel." He "dabbled in guitar and had a remarkable ability to remember song lyrics and classic jingles," demonstrating that his cultural engagement extended beyond passive consumption to active participation and remarkable memory for musical content.
Sutherland's sense of humor enriched his relationships and provided joy to those around him. He appreciated "classic comedians such as Bob Hope, Milton Berle, Groucho Marx, and Johnny Carson," masters of wit and timing who dominated entertainment from vaudeville through television. His own "great sense of humor" made him a delightful companion who could find laughter even in life's ordinary moments.
In his later years, Sutherland found contentment in life's simple pleasures: "ice cream, Coca-Cola, Dick's Drive-In cheeseburgers, red cars, and time spent with family." Dick's Drive-In, founded in Seattle in 1954, represented more than fast food—it embodied community tradition and local culture that Sutherland embraced during his Pacific Northwest years. These modest pleasures reflected a man who understood that happiness often comes not from grand achievements but from savoring life's accessible joys.
During his final year, Sutherland received devoted care from Jeanne Sutherland, whose "thoughtful care and support during the final stages of his life" allowed him to maintain dignity and comfort. Professional caregivers from Home Helpers of Kirkland provided additional support with "compassionate care, reliability, and support" that enabled him to live "life on his own terms in the comfort of his home."
When Darryl William Sutherland Sr. passed away peacefully on March 15, 2026, in Kirkland, Washington, he left behind a legacy measured not in wealth or fame but in relationships nurtured, communities served, and values lived. He will be remembered "for his steady presence, his quiet strength, his humor, and the deep love he had for his family." In an age that often celebrates the loud and dramatic, Sutherland's life testified to the profound impact of consistent kindness, reliable character, and faithful commitment to the people and principles that matter most.
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